Read This Before You Chase Another Win — It’ll Save You Years of Pain
Listen…
I hope your next success breaks you.
Because if it does, you’ll FINALLY be forced to face the parts of you that would’ve sabotaged it anyway
You pour the concrete, stack the bricks, polish the floors.
Hang banners that say “Look at MEEE… Success is coming!”
And you visualize the beautiful view from the top of the hill.
But deep under the surface, your foundation is crackin'.
A fault line runs through it - built from…
👉unhealed shame
👉suppressed rage
👉unmet needs
👉fear of being seen
👉unconscious self-worth stories
You can build fast.
Make it look shiny.
Or you can reach impressive heights - for a time.
But the higher you reach, the more pressure pushes down on the cracks.
And when the winds of life blow (and they will 100% of the time)
This is when the cracks reveal themselves.
Suddenly…
➡️You sabotage the deal.
➡️You burn out just as things take off.
➡️You lash out in relationships.
➡️You lose the capacity to hold what you built.
Success without "shadow work" is a tower on a cracked foundation.
The taller it grows, the harder that fker falls.
Ancient wisdom says:
"Before you build upward - you must go downward – As above – So Below.”
The Great Work isn’t about stalling your dreams.
It’s about making sure the ground beneath them can hold the weight.
When you reclaim the exiled parts…
When you meet the shadow you’ve run from…
When you turn the raw lead into gold…
You don’t just build.
You build something that can bare the weight of your success.
I thought I knew what this all meant when I was younger 😏
I thought success was strategy.
Mindset was enough.
And thought if I just pushed harder, I’d outrun the cracks.
"I was wrong.
Ignorant.
And to my own undoing, I did what I ‘knew’ best...
Stacked wins on top of unexamined wounds."
I mean... c'mon!
I did what I ‘knew’ best at the time 😉
Every time I climbed higher, the ground trembled harder.
Later, when I finally began this Work, I realized something else…
The most successful people in the world?
They’ve already walked this path (whether they knew the ancient names for it or not.)
👉 Tony Robbins calls it “changing your state” - but that’s really altering your vibration and transforming trapped emotional patterns.
👉 Oprah Winfrey speaks openly about “bringing your whole self to the table” - but that’s the essence of shadow reclamation.
👉 Will Smith once said: “You can't achieve outward success until you clean your internal house.”
He’s talking about walking into the dungeon of your mind (where all the repressed shit is stored).
👉 Ray Dalio — the billionaire hedge fund leg-end - built an entire philosophy around “radical truth and radical transparency” - meaning...
Bring what is hidden into the light.
👉 Michael Jordan: known for extreme discipline, has spoken about “embracing fear, not avoiding it” another shadow principle.
Transmutation, not bypass.
Listen... this ain't woo woo shit.
This is REALITY
It's how the real players operate.
The ones who hold success without crumbling.
They’ve done The Work.
"Or life forced them to do it."
And those who refuse?
You see them fly high - and fall faster.
Again. And a fkin’gain.
So if you’re still trying to build the tower without laying the foundation - you already know where that leads.
I’ve walked that road.
Now I walk another.
And if you’re ready to pick up the torch - I’ll show you the path."*
👉 DM me: "Torch in Hand."
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