November 2

The Legacy of “Grindstone” Cafe

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Why "Mediocrity" is The Steppin' Stone To Greatness & Authenticity.

(The Secret)...

You're good enough...

You've ALWAYS been good enough.

But, sometimes...

You just NEED a little nudge!

Maggie grew up in East Haven, a place out in the sticks, (barely even mapped).

But, this place was the world to Maggie, especially the Grindstone Cafe - her grandad's (Walter's) pride and joy.

Sure, it wasn't flash, but it overflowed with genuine charm.

The cafe, with its creaky floorboards, and the smell of freshly brewed coffee.

Where the whole town gathered for delicious home-made food... friendly faces, and a place to unwind.

Ole' Walter Built Grindstone From the Dust of The Desert, always muttering...

"It's NOT always about being the best; it's about being remembered for who you are."

Maggie heard those words so often, they seared into her mind as if by a red hot branding iron.

But now, like dark clouds looming...

International chains came creepin' in.


And month on month she painstakenly watched as her regulars slowly drifted away.


Friends told her to sell, rebrand, or just get in with the big boys. She even started to wonder if she'd been a stubborn ASS!


Maybe, she thought... it WAS time to throw in the towel and just go with the flow.


Then one late night, as she noticed an old photo of Grandpa next to the register.


Ding-A-Ling!


Mrs Lansing, a cafe regular, shuffled in.

"You still here Maggie?" She said, eyes twinkling.


Maggie gave a half-hearted shrug - as Mrs Lansing gently leaned over, carefully looking at the photo of Walter.

Ya know...

Your grandaddy once told me...


"It's NEVER about leaving something big - it's about leaving something TRUE."


Maggie felt her heart fill with joy...

That's it! 

She didn't need a frickin' RE-brand or fancy RE-model.

NOPE...

She just needed to honor Grandads vision.

The Cafe's legacy was already established - in every memory, story... every cup of coffee shared.


The very next morning, Maggie bolted outta bed with a new zest for life and a hearty spring in her step

Because she now knew what to do...

She invited customers to share "THEIR" memories of the Grindstone!


People wrote about first dates, family gatherings, and how the cafe had been like a second home.

And you know what?


THAT book became THE jump start to that ole' beatin' heart - a tribute to every laugh, tear, and hug the cafe had ever seen.


It wasn't long before people from nearby towns got wind of this "second home," and dropped in to see it for themselves.


And, one night as Maggie was relaxing with a nice cuppo coffee, whe glanced up at grandpa's picture, feeling a sense of warmth she hadn't felt in years.


"Thanks, Grandpa," she whispered.


Realizing now...

She didn't have to compete with those big chains or "reinvent" herself...

NO siree!


She just needed to keep the heart of the Grindstone Cafe beating.

And THAT's what became her legacy.


NOT some corporate stiff - jerkin' off to the sound of the piper.

Not on your Nelly, Kelly.


The jewel in her crown was right under her nose.


She just NEEDED a gentle "REMINDER."


The Problem:

NEW things and ideas grab-a-hold, because they tap into our innate curiosity, a fundamental human trait that has helped us innovate and evolve throughout history.

Which is a good thing, but...

can also become a problem.


Especially, when things are continually offered on THE conveyor belt of more, More, MORE!


  • An unquenchable thirst.
  • An incessant urge.
  • The gap that ALWAYS needs bridgin'

The Solution:

On occasion...

  • we just need to break away
  •  find some-place special
  •  ponder the nostalgic mutterings of a wise old man...

 "to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."



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